How would seem shocking statement, but for me it is love the cute life status and friendship are two incompatible sentiments. Moreover, these feelings are inversely proportional, ie where one is felt, gradually losing ground other.Yes, one can say they bore the inspiration of the most valuable works of art from around the culture of the world, but man is such would be the explanation?
True friendship requires a lot of sincerity in the first place; this friend of your friend, because you confess fully to them; if you have a friend and still hiding something from him, you do not your friend in the fullness of meaning of the word (be careful, do not speak of exaggerated sinceriatatea which most often is indecent). Sure, he needs friendship and mutual aid and more, but this time I only analyze the basic element.
But if we look at love, we see that this wonderful sense primarily involves mystery element which is, as is understood in all sincerity disagreement. A friendship is not natural to have him mysteriously while in love the cute life status if you run out the last drop of find over time that the he / she no longer present that interest erotic and gradually get bored once. Once boredom comes indifference relationship finally disintegrates.No need to lie generally lie should be avoided (although she often finds its justification), but in our behavior when we talk or answer a question is better not to say everything; longer leave room and ambiguity. I will give an example. Let's say a young girl asks a meeting in the park. It comes with a rose and chocolates.
The young girl, impressed, will be tempted to ask where he got the flower and how he came to himself to bring the chocolate. If he will show a response not imagine a nice place where you go once and are convinced that you like and chocolate , mmm ... I knew love the cute life status you'd like it, I thought about you ... "etc., Miss butterflies in the stomach will grow, and if you will be honest and tell him that rose is on a hill from outskirts of the city (instead that it immediately and it will imagine as grim) and chocolate has from his grandmother, I assure you that the girl should remain slightly disappointed and it would not be only one link in a long chain disappointments that may follow.Lucian Blaga has a theory about the mystery and extremely interesting about its purpose in our life. In the poem "I do not crush not strangle mystery that finds beautiful things: flowers, eyes, lips or graves, because he loves!
